My family and I just recently got a dog. Does anyone have advice on how to approach this topic with my boyfriend or tips to get the dog to stop chewing? Their minds arent wired that way! It shows empathy. So when the last one child moved out, we were stuck with them, and I became the sole responsible one for all three. I would simply say if the dog stays outside it shouldnt be an issue for you. If anyone has been in a similar situation Id be grateful for any advice you can offer. We now have an 11 month old and I am afraid he will be the next victim. Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. I dont have children and they have filled that void in my life. Weak minded as they are chose to side with my ex because they believed his lies about my bruises. Turns out theyre the ones who took your steak eh? He is not a good guy; people who hurt dogs move on to hurting people. The steroids made her urinate excessively, unbeknownst to us. Ive had people say that I dont truly love my dog because we dont allow him on the furniture, and Im like really? We dont want dog hair all on the couch and definitely not in the bed, so he sleeps in his own bed downstairs. Email: [emailprotected]. Its the worst thing ever. I kennel my dog to punish hIm but my boyfriend is so hateful towards him and its making me resent him. Hi Elena! I really need to do something about this because Im getting to the point where Im willing to give him away but I know this is something my boyfriend refuses to do. They are not humans, theyre animals. I was loving. My wifes stupid dog (125lb German Shepherd) attacked our son and she STILL lets him around our son when I leave the house. She destroys everything. He has two old dogs. Dogs do not fail us, we fail the. It is very frustrating, but while I understand he is a puppy and also my sons best friend, my husband just feels angry about it and has unconsciously refused to get close to the dog. Your wife needs to understand that first and foremost, hes a puppy, second, they have lots of energy and if the puppy is not being walked, and I mean a use the bathroom and now lets focus on a strong walk, he will chew more. Its a fine thing for her to love her dog, but that doesnt make it okay for her to force its presence on you. Husband told me years ago about his best friend (human) that I would be gone before his friend, as I didnt want his friend in my house. Dogs are not kids, gah that makes me want to vomit. I get wanting to have a dog because I like dogs too, but if its your dream in life to have a dog of your own Id say youre not exactly shooting for the stars. My family however? He was even having me pay $1000 month to pay for my health insurance through his employer group coverage his was free. Fortunately he does and so the worst thing that happens is a few flecks of grey showing up on black clothes! Spending time got more minimal and the dogs kept coming first. Itll never work and itll be a fight every day of your life. Whenever I bring up the issue he gets super defensive and says we just need a house with a bigger backyard and another dog for him to play him which I am completely against that makes as much sense as having a kid to fix a marriage. Its not like getting rid of a toy. The experience has scarred me so much that I will never date another man with a dog. It worked for a little but then we usually go backwards once we go forward! I dont think a dog should snarl or growl at anyone, much less one of his masters. Once we moved in together, it didnt take long for me to see that Im second next to that dog and always will be. WOW!!!!! This dog has none of that. Im sticking to my guns. Is asking him to find him the dog a new home too much? Its been a battle since that day 4 years ago. Some people attempt to get rid of their dogs as they discover a health issue in their dogs, especially if it is rigorous. Our baby can crawl and the dog is just a waste of space and peace. I read your OP, and I am so sorry to hear that you were treated that way. The dog is the sweetest, smartest dog Ive ever had. A dog and a cat knows right from wrong. Just like it would be a mistake to get involved with someone with children who hates hates hates children. The worst part is, I cant hug or kiss her without this dog jumping between us and licking her face, which then totally turns me off! The dogs follow my husband constantly and they are constantly in the way, so you have to be careful where you walk for you not to fall. Im still trying to get him to potty train.. Or at least thats why I didnt want the dog on the bed in the first place. We are expecting twins in January and the animals are not trained around small children and in fact have had incidences with smaller or other animals that resulted in aggression (the adult dog killed the kittens left unattended at their previous residence). He said the dog would look at him at night and then would get off the sofa and go to bed. Its seemed like she was in love with him! Ridiculous. Then we moved in together. Ive read about this more and more myself realizing that its a real problem with some people that just cant distinguish their four legged animal from a human being. What is the glue that is holding them together? So when he tells my dog to do something he freezes like he is in trouble and this frustrates my husband as well. I believe people who let their animals do these things are harbouring their own issues with people and secretly enjoying the pretend power their out of control mutts are giving them. I never bother him at night, I go ahead and get up to quite him so he doesnt wake my husband who works very long hours. I feel for you, I really do. Its getting to the point where my boyfriend doesnt even want the dog in the livingroom anymore. I asked her about it and she said she never wanted the dog in the first place, that she knew she would never be happy (I wish I would have known this) because I thought even though I knew she wasnt a fan of dogs that by getting one it would warm her heart, a cuddle play buddy. intimate relationship | 12K views, 171 likes, 20 loves, 67 comments, 11 shares, Facebook Watch Videos from LINDA: a couple sleeping together Im sick to death of dealing with this dog and am even growing resentment to my husband. And most of them are not willing to put in the effort it takes to train, walk, and mentally stimulate them. One time I went outside to grab something out of the car, I came back after a few minutes, the 50 pound dog jumped on the table, stole my food and it was scattered over the floor and there was a lake of pee in the living room. Husband finds this cute. Congratulations Misty! I dont want dos on the couch but this dog feels no matter how many times you yell and discipline for it he continues to do it. He thinks his dog is just fine. I even reminded him that he previously told me he didnt have a problem with that, but he still says I am wrong. Telling him that in six years when the dog is dead, and Im not there, what will you regret? Its so depressing to me this is not what I want in my life, or in my relationship. She gets the carpets all muddy and has torn up the backyard of our home and the landlord is mad. My dog does listen, just not to him. We came to a compromise and agreed to put a dog door in our patio, and that way the dogs have their water and good in there and can still go outside. I am glad I am not the only one having trouble bonding with my partners pet! If we want to develop a strong relationship with another human, then we must be willing to invest the time and effort that it will take. I just cant do it, didnt move all the way over there to come home to a dirty and stressful environment every day and not be able to do anything fun with my new husband. She was used to having the dog in her bed, in the kitchen, on the couch. I like dogs, or liked them. I think in Mistys case all she can fairly expect is for her partner to groom his dog more so that the fur is as little a discomfort or annoyance as possible. How I talk to the cat and greet him(mind you, my husband went through a depression from losing his job and Id come home to his scowl looking face and Mango would run to me for his greeting-Im sorry? Its just not working. I like his cat. Dogs are great for narcissists; they put their human on a pedestal, revolve their world around the human, and never object. He was supportive of getting the dog although I knew he wasnt a massive animal person. They were overfat and waddled everywhere. I have a spouse who has gradually, over many years, eliminated any actual friends I might have that are not actually his own friends. FYI, we are planning on living in an apartment :( Its just very stressful and need some advice I have been thinking about training, but i dont want that in our new house, because that will be pissed and ruined as soon as they are there, and I just want a clean house and not the additional stress of dogs around me. My SO has had this dog many years before me and my oldest came into the picture which I can understand but I can not understand this lack of control of this dog. I accepted I have sweep twice per day until my husband gracious decided he would rescue another dog a min pin couple weeks ago who is about 2years old not house broken and use our home including all bedroom as his personal bathroom. I was really nervous moving in because I pictured having to deal with all these things but if you just calmly communicate your issues and work together Theres a way to figure things out. Thank you so much for the help! He had a cloth sofa which was in the basement. The reality is MUCH different! But thats not enough. I just dont know what to do anymore. A dog or a cat is not important as much as your spouse. Ive built them a damn good warn dog house and theyve adapted to the change. The dog is bored. Now despite my efforts, the dog is destroying my garden, ripping out my roses especially. I love my partner. It takes a lot of time and it shows IMO how much I actually care for my girlfriend because I cant tell you how many men would just hit it and leAve because of an annoying pup. She has made me want to live again and taught me loving kindness. In my opinion you only making it worse and making him think he is the alpha male as he gets his way. The dog would nip at the husband whenever he tried to get near his wife to show her affection. Lucy I feel for you. But Bailey hasnt ever chewed up any thing and me and my 3 kids havent had any problem with her in the home.. We all sleep with her love her play with her etc The arguing became rediclious over MY dog and she ended up outside!!!! Dogs need to be walked daily, given affection, be able to spend time outdoors and also with its family. Plus the dog is actually better trained than most dogs and hangs on every word of his owner. Hi Waddy Hes supposed to be able to go in every room, lay on the couch, and cuddle with you in bed, and if you dont allow this, then you need to give him to someone who does. I dont want to have to take a back seat because of two needy dogs. the little dog weighed about two and a half pounds and was covered in ticks had a dislocated back leg and had been being hit and swung around by the legs punished for no reason being left without food or water. I recall another day where she told the dog I love you a total of 26 times, when our child and myself were in the same room, nothin. They also fart constantly and I dont need to smell dog fart while Im eating either! I wish I could summon some self-righteous fury but Im not even angry Im just hurt, sad, and bitterly disappointed. Fine. Us being dog lovers and always having more than one dog around, this was not okay, but we managed the situation as best as we could. Only a heartless person can get rid of the dog in such a situation. Does that lazzyness (sp) apply to other issues as well such as keeping the house clean? I didn't think much of who cared for biscuit at the time simply because it wasn't none of my business. I grew up with fairly big dogs, including a German Shepherd and a Samoyed. Everyone has to put up with your dog but godforbid they talk out against it. I tell him I cant train her, how I dont have the patience to do it, or the tolerance. Of course we spoiled the crud out of them too. My ex and I would walk with her bulldogs and people driving by would look and smile. There is no chance in hell after half a decade of being with someone would i let them disrespect me that way. There are no boundaries or discipline. It also shows a man how you may treat a child if you have one, thats not good. He keeps saying that there is something wrong with him. Hello, again! I also have the same issue with my cat! Pretty over it all. Except hes getting attacked he will defend himself. It was very depressing for me and now my moving past it has resulted in resentment towards both dog and boyfriend. I really cant believe how deep it goes. She is hard to discipline, doesnt listen, and very nervous. While I would choose the dog over the guy, I dont want that to happen. If I hadnt told him I wouldnt marry him if the big yellow female lab was allowed to sleep in our bed, she would have. I had a goldendoodle attack me! Hire a trainer: If your husband/boyfriend firmly states get rid of the dog due to this peeing or pooping issue, I highly recommend you invest some money in a dog trainer and perform the training. Now he tells me hes not having his dog fixed and I need to neuter Caesar. They have a gate separating the sides of the house but tonight the dog broke through it. At one point my partner said his would have to go as our relationship is more important, I didnt feel too good about it as I know my partner loves her, then he waited hoping that I would change my mind, then he said how would I feel if he felt like that towards my dog and recently he has started picking him, possibly tit for tat or to prove a point. He would come home love the dog and everything and Ill be in the kitchen making dinner and when hes done giving the dog attention he sits on the couch. They follow me every where and never leave my side. To say I should disregard so many years of love and affection because I didnt do my due diligence to makes sure she didnt sleep with her dog seems ridiculous. She doesnt bark to let us know she needs to go outside like our other dog. No. I took him out last year in the summer time to go poop and pee and he ran off from me! Divorce him? She has put a section of the room with pads on the floor so the dog can go there to pee while we are at work. A couple days ago, I sadly ended the relationship after two years of this torture. The dog relented at first and then allowed him and I watched him plant his lips firmly on the side of her muzzle. I keep joking saying I want to get rid of her and he hows back hell get rid of me but Im partially not joking. When he does bark the sound can pierce my boyfriends damaged ear and all the stress he feels about the apartment, money, health, etc. I knew his dog shed but BOY OH BOY did I not realize to what extent!!! We cant leave Jake alone. I ended up ordering our food to go, but still. The first nights, he didnt want me to sleep with him, because he didnt want his dogs to be disturbed. I like his presence there with me so it works. Quite amusing when everyone here is acting as though human loyalty and monogamy is just something coded deeply into our genes. She cuddles or snuggles or whatever you want to call it any chance she gets. I am very sad that my life has been destroyed and means so little to my partner. Just like people sometimes dont like other people. Bf still makes attempts to pretend it was ME. I started a new relationship in January this year with a guy that does not like my dog. Animals are at the mercy of humans many who are cruel like your husband, they are innocent sentient being who will love you whatever you put them through. and our She cares to please me now. My partner bitches and whines about my dog saying CONSTANTLY that my dog is a dog who doesnt even know hes a dog. So here is the problem: My dog loves animals. Not to mention any future relationships! Its been almost a year now and she still continues to try and make me care for this dog. !.my brother had a beautiful border collie which he allowed to get bored and she started to round up the neighbours children.he was going to get her put to sleep so I took her in.shes a fabulous dog and I love her to bits.my boyfriend hates her however and now doesnt want to move in with me because of the hair,the smell,the noise etcIm guttedreally devastated.what should I do? In that same discussion, he said he would like to sleep with them 1 night a week. I had ran inside to go grab a towel. The dog recently bit a groomer (had to get stitches) and also viciously attacked my foot while I was trying to get my dogs toy away from him (he destroys toys instead of playing with them). If you can't fix that, then yes, you should break up. Unfortunately, the hair is still an issue. 2. This dog has become spoiled. She jumps right up and steals their food. Suddenly he didnt want the dog sleeping with us. I am the one to feed, let outside and forever try to clean up the urine from the carpet because one of the older dogs (13) is almost completely incontinent. Is that too much to ask? My now husband and I began dating 3 years ago, he knew I had the dog, was fine with it, bought it toys, etc. Not to mention she always gets in the way. Hes attached himself to this dog to the point were now separated. Ill give you some examples of the hell I have endured. It is a Weimeraner, and I hate the breed, its characteristics, its mannerisms and love all other dogs. Well guys after two years I ended up loving the dog, she sleeps on the bed and my relationship is better than its ever been. We both want a life together as a family. Ill help brushing her as needed. Tonight I will start sleep at guest room, cause his old Labrador dont let me sleep good for few days. Help! You have to find conpromise. BK you guys have the absolute correct vision of how things should be with a pet. Im literally devastated my dream, as silly as it may seem to some, has just died. We now have a 2 month old baby and as you could figure, I am extremely busy with him. At home training, if that doesnt work the next step professional training. If the mouth sores are actually, oh, acne sores (sometimes acne around the mouth is painful, ugly, and very hard to treat), thats a bacteria == but same thing, any spread of acne bacteria should be fairly rapid. Any advice at this point is much appreciated. After living together for 3 month he got his own dog (5 months old) which I was fine with. I dont want him to be miserable for the sake of me getting what I want. when the dog tried climbing on and continuously this weekend she told the dog off but she just keeps coming back. Anyway, fast forward to this last girlfriend. I have a dog who is trained, loved and well behaved. Life is about work and staying busy so I really feel Ive never had the time to get a dog or take time to care for one. I would have to question anyone that would hand out ultimatums to their SO or anyone who would be willing to part with a pet that they made a commitment to based on an ultimatum. My ex-boyfriend, now I think started expected people especially me to act like dogs in the way of unconditional love and no questions asked when my boyfriend wouldact up. First, he wouldnt accept half the things he does but he gets greeted by his dog regardless. When we came back my mother in law, who has always disliked me, claimed that she could never do this favour again because she had become allergic to that particular cat, that he was annoying, loud, etc etc. So I need help! My three year old son has been bitten twice also with bleeding wounds. Id guess the number is zero. This gives me comfort in knowing I made the proper decision. My guy would never put that thing in a crate. Just like having one boy and one girl as children, I want one cat and then Ill be happy. He jumps up on me, and it hurts so bad when his nails rake my skin, and has knocked me to the ground before. I wish your sorrow is short term and much happiness you find a woman makes you a happy man. Im becoming totally bitter about this. He cant even use the bathroom w out her whining to come in. And we did. And building a strong relationship with another person requires a tremendous investment of time but can yield tremendous rewards in the long run, rewards that can never be realized with an animal. Reasons why does your husband/boyfriend wants to get rid of the dog? Everytime he cries now if hes not in the bed which drives me nuts, I love dogs. I was able to love the dog when I didnt have to do so much for her. Im so stressed out in my own home its not fair. It doesnt like to be with anyone but my girlfriend, wont come out of its room unless my girlfriend is present. There is no compromise. So, she did depend on them and treated them like humans (something she even admitted she has to stop doingtreating them like humans). Its always been my choice to let that happen, as I was single at the time of getting him. That being said, you are being selfish and cannot say live your life to keep him happy. worse the way he thinks or trys to lie that his behavior wasnt that bad, or shes just a dog and will get over it. What?!?! Change in the schedule. (Another reason they want to get rid of the dog they rescued from shelter.). The more I read about this in other blogs the more I realize its not even the dogs fault its his! I would know considering the fact that Ive studied psychology and am well acquainted with about half a dozen theories. That the dog calms him. He goes on and on about how he would never choose to have a dog. Melissa, I really feel your pain. My first dog was older when they met and therefore very sedate, the second dog. Gosh That just tells us how your character is. This is a new relationship with the girl I am currently dating, so I dont want to throw in the towel just yet. I HATE her! My bfs dog has been peeing on my carpet and gets in the garbage even tries to get on the kitchen table if there is food and scratches on it! I dont understand why she even has him if she doesnt want to do anything with him. My boyfriend hates my dog and wont let him at his apartment, but insists I stay there. Going to the kitchen, having a snack or a meal he is by my side begging at any opportunity he gets. i even know of instances when couples had a kid that they were raised that the dog is their older brother or sister !! 75 percent of his waking life he is begging for something. It jumps on dinner table begging for food and has scratched the couch to death( we had to get a new cover for the couch) i tried to accept it and invested my time in training it, it responded and stopped doing the bad things for a while but my husband messed with its brains by deliberately putting her on the couch/bed and giving it treats on the couch inspite of me pleading not to, that the cat has gone back to its despicable behaviour. I hear quite a few self-righteous remarks and suggest to contemplate if your worries would really lessen if the dog is no longer I n the picture. He just flat out hates them. Then continue with the training. Absolutely, it is completely unsanitary. .. A PET IS DEFINITELY LIKE A CHILD! Even though you may not understand it, you need to respect other people and their love for them. As I feel she does not care for it properly and number 1, it is not my pet and when I started caring for the dog she completely quit and the dog was becoming my responsibility. We have a 7 month old baby and he is choosing his dog. He thinks I should love his dog as much as he does. Really blows my mind. Shes kind of mean to him tells me things like your dog is gross when hes licking himself between the legs (well, thats what dogs do). We do sleep in the same bed, but when she came, she began sleeping in the room with us. When I am at his house the dog cant let us cuddle in front of TV before interacting with aggressiveness act , he is either wants to sit in the same sofa and not a separate sofa. I refuse to sleep in the bed. You are very lucky to have a supportive partner. Stay out of the kitchen when we are eating (would also want when we are cooking), stay off the couch and out of the bedroom. Its disgusting waking up to ripped open poopy diapers from the dog getting into the trash, its pisses me off having my brand new sheets covered in dog hair..btw im the only one washing the sheets since its insisted the dog sleep in bed with us and my SO jusy says ive always had my dogs sleep with me my whole life. I know this is cruel but for my sanitys sake I find myself just waiting for thag dog to kick the bucket. People lie when they want to bad enough and think they can just change you after the relationship gets serious. My family hates all of my pets. Assistir Sheffield Utd X Tottenham - Ao Vivo Grtis HD sem travar, sem anncios. Im not allowed to touch her without she makes some kind of complaint about pain or period issues, no sex since i had a versectomy as she wanted to come off the pill. I find myself dreading her coming home because I have to deal with them constantly meowing and demanding her attention, which she gladly gives them. I was utterly devastated. She insisted that they loved her. Im not a dog and wont be treated like that. Which was going well until now he hurt himself awhile ago and was sleeping in our room to watch him but now hes better and he said he loves having him in our room sleeping beside us so hes going to keep it that way. Try to clean the house every day prior to the arrival of the husband/boyfriend. My cat (had before we met) is and indoor/outdoor cat. Think about when you have kids? Someone may like pets, and someone may not. Yes, she bit me. My bf told me soooo many times that he was trying to find a home for his dog & that once we bought a house the dog was not moving in no matter what. Youre not crazy. If IT doesnt go,he cant bare to leave IT ALL alonee. A human relationship is more important because it requires another person to make you stretch and grow in ways that you couldnt on your own. 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